| The Eight "Knightly Virtues": Chivalry is... |
PROWESS means "Be as good as you can be at what you do." It doesn't mean "Be better than other people." VALOR means "Do as well as you can, as often as you can." It doesn't mean "Be a decorated hero." COURAGE means "Feel and respect the fear, and do it anyway." It doesn't mean "Be fearless." HONESTY doesn't mean "Try to hurt people's feelings." It means "Tell the truth, to others and yourself." ... and four Virtues of Peace. HUMILITY means "It's not about you; it never was, & it never will be." It doesn't mean "Put yourself down." COURTESY means "Be polite to everyone, no matter who they are." It doesn't mean "Be sickeningly sweet." FIDELITY means "Be true to what and who you believe in." It doesn't mean "My way, right or wrong." LARGESSE means "Be generous with what you have." It doesn't mean "Give everything away." We will make an effort to talk about at least one of our Knightly Virtues at each class session, and how the particular Virtue applies both to our martial art as well as to everyday life. "... remember that all honor and success in this world are transitory, but the glory which you may acquire by your virtues will be eternal." --Robert du Guesclin, on his deathbed to his son Bertrand du Guesclin. |